2. Social reasons. Marriage often times helps in social contexts. Married men appear to be more stable.

3. Family reasons. Mostly all men want their children to marry and start a nuclear family. We marry and remain married so that our children can not grow up to be single mothers or deadbeat dads.

PERSONALLY

1. Thank God I let the conventional religious/sex/sin thing go a long time ago! Sex is sacred and it has a purpose and to have sex outside of those purposes (create life, bond to one another, relieve stress, & manifest ideas into reality) is to “Sin” (miss the mark/purpose). I live a purpose-driven life so I don’t have sex for reasons outside of the above, thus most of the time don’t “sin.”

I also don’t believe in mundane sex so if he is not creative and about the spice, he is not the one for me!

2. I don’t live my life to “look good” to society. I’m single with no children at 35 and catch hell AND I refuse to settle just to “fit it.” I have enough strength of character not to bow to society pressure that are not in my best interest.

3. I am clear that family can look a lot of ways and while I would prefer to raise my future children with their father 100% present in their life, I am preparing myself now to create a different support structure with an extended family either way. Whether Mr. Extraordinary and I get married and have children in the next 5 years or I have my first child in the next 5 years and marry him later, I will be using the village model to raise my family vs this idiotic “wester” nuclear family nonsense that does not work.

I will get married for 1 reason only. I have found a sexy person who complements me and whom I complement with whom I want to build a life and who wants to build a life with me. We will declare it publicly in front of family, friends, God, nation, the world in a legal ceremony binding us legally as a symbol of our commitment to one another and to the future we are creating together. Stick around and you just might get and invitation!!!

When being The Virtuous Vixen, I am all about sharing my journey as I continue to evolve into and embrace my Divine Purpose and live into the future I invented for myself. This sharing is all about personal development and how I put into action the things I am reading and finding out about life.